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Vulnerability

May 15, 2022 by afshansa 4 Comments

When I started writing again this year, I felt as if something needed to change. It was not so much that something was wrong, rather that I had once again gone through a phase of personal evolution over the last couple of years. It was becoming more and more clear to me how language shapes not just the way we think and feel, but our reality.

As most of you know, I’m am an MBI coach and in one of her initial lectures, Martha Beck asked us the number one reason why people commit suicide. What was eye-opening eight years ago, today feels like common sense.

Language is the number one reason that people take their own lives. Some of us may be familiar with the example of how two people can look at the same glass of water and see two different things. It’s all about how we communicate, not just with others but with ourselves that creates our perceptions.

This brings me back to what I began with. I feel that I want to speak and write clearly, simply and concisely. So far so good. What caused me to skip my last two blogs was the fact that I also feel that I need to be more forthcoming personally. Dare I say it, show more vulnerability. Faced with this rather too-close-for-comfort predicament, I decided to skip writing altogether and you all witnessed my flight response. And also my freeze response… it’s worked out rather nicely for me, that as a coach I can empathize with all manner of clients.

On a serious note though, I hope you’ll come along as I step out of the shadow of ‘we’ and ‘us’ and move into my own light. I know it is a scary prospect to show up without any masks, but it’s scarier still to not fully live the truth of who we are. For those of you waiting in the wings, let’s do this. Together. It’s time to write a new story.

 

Best
Afshan x

 

 

 

 

 

 

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  1. Tariq Mahmood Khan says

    May 16, 2022 at 12:45 pm

    “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma—which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become.” —Steve Jobs
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    Excerpt From
    The 5 AM Club
    Robin Sharma
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  2. Ifrah says

    May 16, 2022 at 3:26 pm

    Always here to walk with you on this journey of yours. 😘🤗

    “I know it is a scary prospect to show up without any masks, but it’s scarier still to not fully live the truth of who we are.” – This is what I’ve been feeling and realising more and more too. Being vulnerable is not easy. It takes lots of courage. But sometimes in an attempt to be or feel safe, we belittle ourselves for the world and for the people around us, and end up betraying ourselves and the reality of who we are.

    I love you ❤️

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  3. Mahnoor says

    May 17, 2022 at 9:27 pm

    ❤️

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  4. Shahid says

    May 31, 2022 at 7:25 pm

    Happy to hear about stepping “.. out of the shadows..” and “..to show up without any masks”. If we keep hiding in the shadows and in the wings, we shall never learn the delight and sheer joy of a flying spirit. Regrettably, a large section of our society exists with their wings clipped (fear, lack of self confidence, unwilling to explore new avenues .. ) and end up with a life devoid of a nourishing soul. Constant reinventing one’s self and taking on new challenges head on will lead to a life worth living and celebrating.
    Glad to see you back..

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